The Road Not Taken—And the Road I Took

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“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood…”
“…I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”
—Robert Frost

1. Forks in the Road Are Inevitable

Robert Frost opens with a scene we all recognize—coming to a fork in the path and having to choose. This moment is not just literal; it represents every decision point in life—careers, relationships, values. For me, the fork appeared after years in pharmacy. I had done everything “right”—earned my degree, practiced with precision—but I felt drawn to something less predictable, less prescribed. Writing. Reflection. Storytelling. I stood at the fork, uncertain but curious. And I stepped off the paved road.

Takeaway: Life rarely presents a straightforward “right” or “wrong” path. Instead, it gives you a moment of pause—listen to your inner pull.

2. The Myth of the “Less Traveled” Road

Interestingly, Frost admits that both roads were worn “really about the same.” The difference, then, wasn’t the path, but the meaning he assigned it later. In hindsight, we often give our choices a sense of boldness, adventure, or destiny. That’s what Frost captures so poignantly. Looking back, I could say that leaving pharmacy for writing was brave. But in truth, it was an accumulation of nudges, longings, and a growing mismatch between who I was and what I did.

Takeaway: We create the meaning of our decisions through reflection, not prediction. It’s not about being different—it’s about being true.

3. Regret, Reflection, and Reinvention

Frost acknowledges he doubted he would ever come back and try the other road, just as we rarely circle back to relive former lives. There’s always a tinge of wonder: what if I’d chosen the other road? I sometimes wonder what my life would be like if I had stayed in the pharmacy field. But I don’t dwell there. Because the path I chose led to a deeper connection with others and with myself. I now write stories. I help others through their crossroads. I’ve built a career at the intersection of experience and expression.

Takeaway: Reinvention is not failure. It’s a form of growth. The road you didn’t take still shapes you, but the one you choose is yours to cultivate.

4. Why This Poem Still Resonates Today

In today’s world, careers aren’t linear. Hybrid lives—like mine—are becoming more common. People are realizing that what once fit may no longer suit who they are becoming. Frost’s poem remains relevant because we’re all still standing in those yellow woods, choosing. But here’s the catch: You don’t have to choose just once. Life offers many diverging paths. And each time you step off the familiar trail, you author your story anew.

Takeaway: The road less traveled isn’t always about rebellion—it’s about alignment. Your life is your poem.

Conclusion: A Road Made for You

Like Frost, I now look back and say, “That has made all the difference.” Not because I was braver or wiser. But because I honored a voice within that said, this way. If you find yourself at a crossroads—whether it’s a career, creative calling, or personal change—pause, listen, and trust. You don’t need a map—just a willingness to walk.

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Brad G. Philbrick

A grant proposal writer of biotechnology and healthcare

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