You don’t feel ready before growth — you feel ready because you grew.
So many people wait for confidence, clarity, or permission. But most meaningful progress — in writing, work, and life — comes from showing up before you feel fully prepared.
There’s a myth we rarely question:
I’ll start when I feel ready.
Ready to write.
Ready to speak up.
Ready to apply.
Ready to lead.
But “ready” is one of the most seductive forms of procrastination. It sounds responsible. Mature. Thoughtful. In reality, it often masks fear of wearing a sensible outfit.
If you look back at the moments that actually shaped your life, most of them probably began with some version of:
“I’m not sure I can do this… but I’m going to try.”
You didn’t feel ready when you took that job.
You didn’t feel ready when you had that complicated conversation.
You didn’t feel ready when you first called yourself a writer, leader, or expert.
You felt uncertain. Exposed. Slightly underqualified.
And you showed up anyway.
Readiness Is a Mirage
We imagine readiness as a feeling — a calm, grounded sense of certainty.
But in real life, readiness is usually revealed after we act, not before.
Action creates clarity.
Movement builds confidence.
Participation produces competence.
Waiting to feel ready is like waiting to feel warm before stepping into the sun.
The People Who Grow the Most
The people who grow the most aren’t the most fearless.
They’re the ones most willing to be beginners in public.
They:
- Publish the post that isn’t perfect
- Raise their hand with a half-formed thought
- Try the new role before they fully believe they belong there
They understand something powerful:
Discomfort is often a sign of expansion, not danger.
A Small Personal Truth
Some of the most crucial turning points in my life started with a quiet, private decision that didn’t look impressive at the time.
Not bold.
Not dramatic.
Just a moment of, “I guess I’ll try.”
Those small, imperfect starts led to skills, confidence, and opportunities I couldn’t have planned.
If I had waited until I felt fully ready, I’d still be waiting.
Try This Instead
The next time you hear yourself say,
“I’m not ready yet,” Try gently translating it to:
“”’m about to grow.”
Then take one small step anyway:
- Send the email
- Share the idea
- Submit the piece
- Start the draft
You don’t need to feel ready.
You need to be willing.
Because readiness rarely comes first.
Showing up does.







































































